After being in a relationship where I completely lost myself. I wasn’t quite sure if love existed. Not only was I questioning it’s existence I questioned whether the man, I am now divorcing, ever felt the same. While my marriage was never perfect after the complicated mess, I have come to realize quite a few things.
Sometimes it is completely okay to be a little selfish. In my marriage I was always there to meet my husband’s needs but when I needed something I didn’t receive anything back. It’s difficult to be with someone who only takes and takes, and never has any real intentions of giving back in return. That’s why I am saying it’s ok to be selfish.
As women we dream of the perfect man to marry. We have all of the desirable traits embedded in our minds but yet we often settle for something not even close. Why is that? As a woman struggling to once again find herself, after a very messy divorce; I have a few encouraging words. There is absolutely nothing more desirable and sexy than a woman who knows exactly who she is and exactly what she wants. So often we see some great looking men with not so great looking girls.
I have always wondered why that is? These women often times have a strong mind, a strong sense of who they are. I can honestly say after learning this I have never had so many men asking me on dates. I haven’t changed my outward appearance, in fact, the only thing that changed was who I was inside. So don’t be afraid! Embrace who you are, this is what men love. Always be true to yourself. This right here could not be more important.
If you feel that you have to change who you are in order to be with someone, then that relationship is definitely not for you. You will only be able to keep up that lie for so long before the true you comes out. According to capture his heart pdf no relationship can prosper when it is based on a lie. No man wants to be with a woman who isn’t sure of herself and who doesn’t love herself.
Knowing who you are is what makes men notice and that is what draws them in. Men desire a woman who is sure of herself. If you think about it you wouldn’t want to buy a box of cereal that is damaged because you would be unsure if what you are buying. In the same sense if we come off a little broken and a little to unsure men will pass you up. They want the best the can have too. So always love yourself and you will start to see that men will be drawn to you.
Relationships are bonding factors which bring people closer to each other. Relationships are not only restricted to the opposite sex but people of the same sex also have a close bonding with each other. According to the tao of badass guide the main essence in a relationship is love, understanding and emotional security. Relationships are so essential in society as man is a social animal and thrives in the company of others.
Man right from primitive times lived in groups and developed a kind of bonding and even nomads wandered from place to place together. Gradually as man began to lead a settled life that relationships developed leading to communities and matrimonial alliances. God created man and woman to become one and the world was established with procreation. Countries also have come closer to each other and friendly relations between them have led to prosperity and advancement.
Close interaction and inter-dependence leads to inter change of cultures which render men and women to even enter into matrimony and lead a conjugal life of bliss. Relationships in today’s world are such that they at times are beset with many difficulties as their instinct of the survival of the fittest applies and then the ego factor plays a major role and relationships tend to become bitter due to many reasons where there is lack of understanding,jealousy,possessiveness and lack of communication. Read More →
There are a lot of “Text Your Ex Back Examples” at the internet. Can you trust them? Think that maybe there is last chance to get her/ him. How will you use your last chance? Will you use standard and unprofessional text advice? I don’t think so. I am sure that you are thinking about these questions.
- What if you would not have all those arguments with your ex?
- What if you were still together and you could still wake up in the middle of the night just to see your ex’s face?
- Do you miss those lovely moments? If you do, probably you are deeply hurt at this moment and desperate to get your ex back in your arms.
But you just don’t know how to convince your ex and let her/him know how much your love truly is.
This is a situation many of us have gone through and desperate pleading is not going to help in most cases. That’s why Michael Fiore has established a great way to text your ex back, no matter how angry he/she is or for how long you two have been detached. The Text Your Ex Back program is designed to convince your ex about your love and passion for her/him. It also asks you to make some key considerations to improve yourself for a healthy relationship in the long run. Read More →
Just like with real-world dating, online daters sometimes face fierce competition in cyberspace. This competitive nature sometimes causes people to resort to telling lies on their profile or to posting older, more attractive photos of themselves just to attract their next date. Hopefully, you’ve not stooped to such antics, but instead are looking for ways to build an online dating profile that rocks – the honest way. This article looks at how you can build a standout online dating profile that will help you get noticed, putting you steps closer to finding the right person for you.
Avoiding Negativity in Your Online Dating Profile
Nearly everyone has experienced a date where the person that you are with complains constantly about this and that, whether it is their ex-husband or their current boss. How did they make you feel? Did you ask them out for a second date? Chances are they brought you ‘down’ with them and you were so glad to say farewell at the end of the night. Negativity is one of the biggest turn-offs, bar none. On the flip side of negativity is positivity. Being positive is a big turn on. Being negative in your profile, like saying, “I hate rap music” or “the last girl that I dated was a total stalker” or “I am so tired of the club scene” can be replaced with positive things like “I love classic rock” and so on. Remember: positive people attract others like bees to honey; negative people turn them off faster than the spray of a skunk. Read More →
Survey Confirms: Women Seek Giant Members
It seems that the women of today are looking for something different in their men. I went on a quest to find what it is that we simply cannot do without when choosing a mate…and the results kind of surprised me.
Of the 100 women in my social circle that I surveyed, more than half insisted that their partner have money, a great body and be well-endowed. However, my immediate social circle could definitely just be full of hoochies…
Some women said that a sense of humor was essential. This I wholeheartedly agree with. Nothing is worse than a man that can’t laugh…or that only laughs after you explain why something is funny. Ugh.
Others got a little more in depth about specific wants and needs – honesty, sincerity, vulnerability and communication sat amid “must be able to cook”, “I want someone I can fart in front of”, and “no douchebags” at the top of the list. Read More →